Whichever you choose,
the path you take
becomes the right one.
I don't want to fail.
I don't want to regret.
So I can't choose.
But not choosing is also
a choice in itself.
You're torn because both options are good.
Stop looking for the right answer
There's no right answer from the start.
You make the path you chose the right one
through effort and dedication.
Trust your gut,
and just jump in.
The Alchemist
Paulo Coelho
When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
Follow the omens. Trust the voice within. A book that fills you with courage.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. How do I know if I'm making the right decision?
You can't — and that's liberating. Research shows that people who make 'good enough' decisions are happier than those who endlessly optimize. Decide, then make it right.
Q. What if I regret my choice?
Regret is almost always about inaction, not action. Studies consistently show people regret the things they didn't do far more than the things they did.
Q. Should I follow my head or my heart?
Neuroscientist Antonio Damasio found that emotion is essential for good decision-making. Your gut feeling is your brain processing information your conscious mind hasn't caught up to.
Books for the indecisive
The Paradox of Choice
Barry Schwartz
Why more options make us less happy — and how to decide with confidence.
Thinking, Fast and Slow
Daniel Kahneman
Understand how your brain makes decisions. The definitive guide to human judgment.
The Crossroads of Should and Must
Elle Luna
A beautiful manifesto for choosing passion over obligation. Short, visual, and powerful.